I am thankful for a new year and a fresh start! At the end of 2016, I was dragging. I felt like there were hundreds of things I needed to do and no time to do them. I couldn’t determine what was most important to do and ended up just kind of free falling the last few months. Getting by, but lacking the drive or desire to do anything. Because I couldn’t accomplish everything, I accomplished almost nothing. I think I figured if I was going to fail anyway, why try? It was a dark and discouraging time.
I guess it might be called “burn out” in the missionary world, but I am just going to call it the “Martha complex”. At the end of Luke 10, Jesus comes to visit Mary and Martha’s home. Martha spends the whole time preparing food and making things just right, while Mary sits with Jesus and listens to what He has to say. Martha gets upset and tells Jesus that Mary should help her. But Jesus say, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” That one thing? That was Jesus.
You would think that a missionary could figure that out. I suppose I have now and then, but tend to forget when the world crowds in and life gets busy. So, this year I started my “Mary diet” and we will see if I can stick to it. Around the 28th of December the verse about the greatest command came to mind. Jesus is asked what the greatest command is and because there are so many, the religious rulers are hoping to stump Him. But Jesus replies (in Mark 12), “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.”
That got me thinking. If I am going to love God with all my heart, mind, soul, and strength; shouldn’t I be ‘flexing’ those muscles? Because right now, all I have to give is not a lot. So, I took a piece of paper, divided it into four sections and wrote: Heart, Mind, Soul, and Strength in each. I then wrote 2 or 3 things that I could/should do to work on those areas. The Heart category had praying for a specific person each week and trying to write them an encouraging note (I bought a bunch of postcards for that), the Mind category had memorizing the book of Philippians throughout the year, the Soul category included books of the Bible that I wanted to do a Bible Study and/or devotional on, and the Strength category mapped out an exercise program that I am working on. Some of these categories work together (the Soul and Mind/Heart and Soul/Strength and Mind…I sometimes memorize while I exercise), but it has been helpful to place my focus on what really matters.
Yes, I still have much to do every day, in fact, in some ways I have more, but my focus is on the “one thing” that matters. The clouds have cleared in my heart and mind and my soul is rejoicing in the Joy of living for the Lord. My energy is renewed from the exercise and I am thankful for God’s wisdom and leading in my life. The “Mary Diet” might not be for everyone, but it has been a God send for me. 🙂